One of the most unexpected transitions in my adult life happened in March 2007, the day my husband and I were headed to close on our first home. We had planned that day down to the minute. My husband met me for lunch, and we were floating—dreaming about paint colors, remodeling, family dinners, and the life we imagined in our new home. We held hands as we drove to the bank to sign the papers.

And then, the phone rang.

The closing was canceled. The housing market had crashed. Our lending company was collapsing, likely heading for bankruptcy. Our plans evaporated in an instant.

I remember my husband quietly pulling the car over. Neither of us said much—what could we say? We didn’t buy a house that day. Instead, we swallowed the disappointment and the uncertainty that followed. Our conversations quickly shifted from “When we move in…” to “What do we do now?”

We found another lender through our local bank, and one month later, we prepared to sign again. Only this time, a few days before finalizing the purchase, I learned I was losing my job—the first one I had after college, the one I thought I’d grow into. On top of that, I was pregnant. Everything felt fragile, uncertain, and heartbreaking.

My first instinct was to worry. “What about the house?” I asked.

My husband didn’t hesitate. “What about it? You’ll find another job. Don’t worry,” he said.

Even in that moment, when I didn’t want to trust the process or step into the unknown, God was teaching me something vital: trust is not optional. It is essential. Over the next 30 days, He provided. I was offered another position—one that would become an unexpected blessing for our family. It allowed me to work from home long before remote work became common, and it offered extended maternity leave when our son arrived.

We signed for the house. We moved in. And together, we rebuilt everything room by room.

Nearly 20 years later, in 2028, we will celebrate two decades in that home. Nothing remains untouched—paint, flooring, fixtures, all of it has changed. But our love, our faith, and the story of how God carried us through uncertainty remain unshaken.

Growing older doesn’t make transitions easier. Sometimes, experience only teaches us how deeply uncertainty can cut. But it also teaches us something far more important: worry adds weight. Trust lifts it.

My husband’s calm confidence reminded me of God’s steady promises. I didn’t want to trust Him at the time. I didn’t want to trust the process. But trust was exactly what I needed to practice—trust in the Lord, and trust in the partner God had given me. He cares for me, even when I am anxious and uncertain.

Transitions are inevitable throughout life. Housing changes. Work changes. Family rhythms shift. Our bodies and abilities evolve. But we are not asked to face any of these alone. Scripture is full of reminders:

• “Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding.” — Proverbs 3:5–6
• “Do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself.” — Matthew 6:34
• “Cast your burden on the LORD, and he will sustain you.” — Psalm 55:22

In each season, God invites us to place our fears into His hands. The Bible emphasizes the sovereignty of God and the call to surrender our anxieties to Him—not because life is easy, but because He is faithful.

Today, when my husband and I laugh about how our house has changed—how nothing looks the way it originally did—we also remember a deeper truth: the home we built is anchored in a story of God’s provision, of lessons learned in trusting Him even when we didn’t understand.

Transitions will come. They will surprise us. They will interrupt and overwhelm. But they also shape us, deepen our faith, and teach us trust we didn’t know we needed. And sometimes, they lead us to blessings we never imagined.

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Growing up, I always struggled to feel like I belonged. I remember distinct times in my life when my actions were driven by the desire to be included. I joined after-school groups and sports leagues to join others in my class. I attended youth groups every week to hang out with “the cool kids” who wouldn’t necessarily hang out with me otherwise. To give them credit though, I was an awkward kid with too much energy for my body. I just hadn’t found my people yet, people who could match my energy.

When I surrounded myself with people I could relate to, I felt like I truly belonged. I could be my full, authentic self without needing to dampen certain identities. Over time, that grew into a community that I cherish today.

But even after, when I felt that I had found my confidence and my group, there was still that lingering thought that I wasn’t meant to be there or that those around me didn’t see me as a peer.

Imposter syndrome and loneliness can sometimes be interlinked. Imposter syndrome is “when someone feels undeserving of their achievements and the high esteem in which they are generally held” (Psychology Today). If you cannot trust that you are meant to be where you are, then it is hard to trust those around you. And most people, even those with imposter syndrome, do want to trust those around them. In my case, I struggle to trust my own brain and my own joy.

In college, when I began to develop professionally and take leadership roles in my social clubs, I discovered both a deep sense of belonging and the true definition of imposter syndrome. My senior year, I was president of two student organizations, both of which felt like home. But when I started to experience imposter syndrome and I didn’t believe that I belonged there, it began to isolate me from them. I was so burnt out that I couldn’t communicate how I was feeling in a conducive way and often projected many of my fears outward. What brought me out of it and what keeps me moving forward are the people around me, those who see me and continue to remind me that I do belong.

In trying to find my sense of belonging, I’ve learned that in chasing joy and what makes me feel like me, I find others who may share that joy and relate to my struggles. When I came out as bisexual in high school, I had a handful of friends that I could confide in and who I knew saw me for all my identities. Even having that small group, in a sea of others, made it easier to be public about how I truly felt. Since then, being a part of the queer community is something I cherish deeply and fight hard for, because everyone deserves to feel a deep sense of belonging without fear.

In trying to “right” my imposter syndrome, I’ve learned it’s always an uphill battle. Perfectionism is a cause of imposter syndrome, so I must accept that I can never be “perfect” or exactly what others expect. There may always be a small feeling of imposter syndrome there, and that’s normal. I must remember to ground myself, connect to those around me, share my feelings, and give myself grace.

Throughout my life, I may lose my sense of belonging with certain groups, but I’ll gain it in others. It’s an ever-changing cycle. As I’ve gotten older, I don’t stress as much about being included, but there is always a small part of me that does. It’s all about learning to live with that feeling.

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As we observe Fair Housing Month and reflect on housing equity nationwide, it is an important moment to examine how affordability makes aging in place possible—and why it must remain a priority as our population continues to age.

Why Affordable Housing Matters

Aging in place is ultimately about choice: the ability to remain in one’s home and community as needs evolve. But when housing costs outpace income, that choice quickly disappears.

The reality is that many older adults live on extremely limited, fixed incomes. Across United Church Homes senior housing communities, the average resident lives on less than $17,000 annually, relying almost entirely on Social Security, SSI, or a modest pension income. With virtually no wage earnings or financial flexibility, predictable housing costs are essential.

Affordable senior housing ensures that residents are not forced to choose between rent, healthcare, food, or transportation. Through income‑aligned rents and housing subsidies that cover more than half of the true cost of housing, residents are protected from displacement and financial instability—conditions that would otherwise make aging in place impossible.

Equally important, these communities are intentionally designed to support independence. Accessible living spaces, proximity to services, and on‑site service coordination help residents adapt as mobility or health needs change, without losing their homes.

Aging in Place Is Working

The impact of affordability is clear. Residents remain stably housed for years—not months. The average length of stay across United Church Homes communities exceeds five years, with a significant number of residents remaining for a decade or longer.

This longevity reflects more than housing retention. It reflects stability, trust, and community. When housing remains affordable over time, older adults are able to stay rooted, build relationships, and remain engaged in the places they call home.

Rather than cycling through housing or entering higher‑cost care prematurely, residents continue living independently in environments that evolve with them.

Who Is Aging in Place?

The demographics of senior housing illustrate why affordability and accessibility matter so deeply. The average resident age in United Church Homes communities is nearly 74, with many individuals in their 80s and 90s continuing to live independently.

Most residents live alone.  For them, housing communities provide not only stability but connection—neighbors who notice when someone is missing, shared spaces that reduce isolation, and access to resources that support well‑being.

Residents also bring diverse life experiences, including veterans, individuals with disabilities, immigrants, and those who have experienced housing instability in the past. This diversity underscores the importance of equity‑focused housing solutions that recognize and respond to a wide range of needs.

Fair Housing and Aging with Dignity

Fair Housing Month reminds us that safe, affordable housing is a right—not a privilege. For older adults, fair housing protections play a critical role in ensuring access to income‑aligned rent, reasonable accommodations, and accessible environments.

These protections help ensure that aging does not result in displacement and that older adults can remain housed with dignity, regardless of income, disability, or background.

Beyond Staying Put

Aging in place is not about just staying put. It is about remaining connected and engaged:

• A longtime resident adjusts to mobility changes with simple unit modifications—grab bars, improved lighting, and accessible pathways—allowing her to remain safely in her home without moving to higher‑cost care.
• A retired veteran remains housed on a fixed income, relying on predictable rent and on‑site service coordination to access benefits, transportation, and preventative healthcare, avoiding unnecessary hospital stays.
• A resident who once felt isolated finds connection through community meals, education programs, or wellness activities—transforming an apartment into a place of belonging, not just shelter.
• A widowed resident chooses to remain in her home after the loss of her spouse, supported by a community that understands the emotional as well as practical challenges of aging alone.

These moments illustrate that aging in place is about continuing to live fully—supported by housing that adapts and supports rather than displaces.

A Foundation for Abundant Living

Affordable housing is not merely a financial arrangement; it is the foundation that enables older adults to focus on relationships, health, and purpose. When housing costs are predictable and aligned with income, residents gain stability—and with it, opportunity.

As we reflect on housing equity this Fair Housing Month, may we continue building communities where every older adult has the opportunity to age in place safely, independently, and with abundance.

Find a United Church Homes senior living community near you!

by: Dan Fagan – Vice President of Care and Housing

Stay Connected and Live Life Abundantly

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United Church Homes Management Announces New Sales & Marketing Partnership with EHM Senior Solutions

MARION, OH — Apr. 1, 2026 — United Church Homes Management (UCHM), a subsidiary of United Church Homes, has announced a new partnership with EHM Senior Solutions, formerly known as Evangelical Homes of Michigan. Through this collaboration, UCHM will provide comprehensive sales and marketing services to support EHM’s continued growth and long-term sustainability across its service lines.

Like United Church Homes, EHM Senior Solutions has deep roots in faith-based service and a long-standing commitment to caring for older adults with dignity and compassion. United Church Homes and Evangelical Homes of Michigan Senior Solutions were founded through the ministry of the United Church of Christ, and the partnership reflects a shared mission to serve older adults and strengthen communities through values-driven care.

EHM Senior Solutions offers a full continuum of services, including independent living, assisted living, memory care, skilled nursing, adult day services, home health care services, private duty services and its LifeChoices program, a licensed continuing care at home (CCaH) program that provides home- and community-based services to residents of Washtenaw County. While skilled nursing services are located at a separate site, many residents share connections across EHM’s communities, reflecting the organization’s integrated approach to care.

Through this partnership, UCHM will focus on strengthening occupancy levels across all service lines while enhancing the effectiveness of EHM’s sales strategy and processes. The collaboration includes direct support in managing and developing the sales team, implementing a comprehensive digital marketing strategy—including social media and website optimization—and delivering monthly performance analytics to measure success and identify key performance indicators.

In addition, UCHM will assist EHM in aligning its service offerings to encourage cross-referrals among product lines and build stronger partnership opportunities throughout the region.

“We are excited to partner with EHM Senior Solutions,” said Dan Miller, executive director of UCHM. “EHM has a strong legacy of faith-based service and community commitment. Our goal is to support their team with the tools, strategy, and resources needed to ensure sustainable occupancy and continued excellence in care.”

“This partnership reflects the strength that comes when organizations with shared values work together,” said Kenneth Young, president and CEO of United Church Homes. “Both of our organizations are rooted in a tradition of faith-based service, and we believe that collaboration like this helps ensure we can continue meeting the needs of older adults and their families for generations to come.”

Kari Rennie, president and CEO of EHM Senior Solutions, added, “I echo Dan and Kenneth’s sentiments. We are excited about this partnership and understand the strength that comes from collaborating with an organization with shared values and a faith foundation. That collaboration is key to ensuring our 146-year legacy of service and excellence in Michigan continues.”

The partnership officially began February 1, 2026.

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For more than a century, United Church Homes has been dedicated to transforming the lives of older adults with quality housing and compassionate care. Now recognized as the 19th largest multisite nonprofit senior living organization in the U.S., according to the 2025 LeadingAge Ziegler 200 ranking, UCH proudly serves nearly 7,000 residents across more than 90 vibrant communities in 15 states and two Native American nations. Driven by a mission to redefine aging, UCH creates a culture of community, wholeness and peace for those it has the honor to serve. As a founding member of Radiant Alliance, United Church Homes continues to lead the way in shaping the future of senior living. 

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United Church Homes Celebrates Grand Re-Opening of Capitol Station Following Major Renovations and Housing Preservation Effort

INDIANAPOLIS — March 31, 2026 — United Church Homes (UCH) celebrated the grand re-opening of Capitol Station on Thursday, March 26, marking the completion of an extensive renovation and federal housing preservation effort that secures long-term affordability for low-income older adults in Indianapolis.

The event highlighted the successful execution of a Rental Assistance Demonstration for Project Rental Assistance Contract (RAD for PRAC) conversion through the U.S. Department of Housing and Urban Development. With additional capital for renovation generated via the 4% Low Income Housing Tax Credit (LIHTC) equity, this milestone ensures that all 50 apartments at Capitol Station remain affordable while undergoing a full modernization totaling more than $120,000 per apartment.

Guests and partners gathered to mark the community’s transformation. Following remarks from organizational leaders and project partners, attendees toured several newly renovated apartments, viewing firsthand the upgrades that improve both quality of life and long-term sustainability for residents.

The renovation project delivered significant improvements throughout the community, including updated kitchens and bathrooms, new HVAC systems, enhanced electrical and plumbing systems, accessibility upgrades, energy-efficient enhancements and strengthened safety features. Together, these renovations respond to the growing need for high-quality, affordable housing options for older adults in Indianapolis, ensuring residents can thrive in a safe, comfortable and supportive environment.

The transformation of Capitol Station was guided by the United Church Homes Preservation Team, led by Nate Bollinger, senior vice president of asset stewardship and Kevin Deegan, vice president of UCH Preservation. The team is dedicated to leveraging available federal housing programs and collaborating with key partners to preserve qualifying UCH properties nationwide. Their work ensures long-term affordability and modernization across UCH’s portfolio of nearly 80 owned and managed affordable housing communities throughout the United States.

“This renovation represents far more than upgraded apartments — it is an investment in dignity, stability, and opportunity for the older adults who call Capitol Station home,” said Ken Young, President and CEO of United Church Homes. “Through RAD for PRAC and the support of our partners, we have secured the long-term affordability of this community while ensuring residents have a safe, modern, and meaningful place to age abundantly.”

Speakers at the event included Young, along with members of the UCH leadership team. Representatives from the Indiana Housing and Community Development Authority, Marble Cliff Capital, Parkway Construction and First Financial Bank were also in attendance.

Lona White, a Capitol Station resident who addressed attendees expressed heartfelt appreciation for the transformation. “I love all the colors, all the furniture, everything! Since I have been here, I have made new friends, enjoyed creating memories and having so much fun. I find myself staying in my apartment more, but I enjoy and love my apartment—my home. Thank you, United Church Homes. Thank you to all who made this happen. I’m excited to see what the future holds for us,” she shared.

The celebration concluded with refreshments and guided tours of the upgraded spaces. The revitalized Capitol Station stands as a testament to United Church Homes’ ongoing commitment to preserving affordable housing and enriching the lives of older adults across the country.

The event was held at Capitol Station, 7828 Madison Ave., Indianapolis, IN.

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For more than a century, United Church Homes has been dedicated to transforming the lives of older adults with quality housing and compassionate care. Now recognized as the 19th largest multisite nonprofit senior living organization in the U.S., according to the 2026 LeadingAge Ziegler 200 ranking, UCH proudly serves nearly 7,000 residents across more than 90 vibrant communities in 15 states and two Native American nations. Driven by a mission to redefine aging, UCH creates a culture of community, wholeness and peace for those it has the honor to serve. As a founding member of Radiant Alliance, United Church Homes continues to lead the way in shaping the future of senior living. 

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The aging process can bring new challenges, and with those challenges may come the need for additional support. But these changes don’t have to feel frightening—or like a loss of independence. When approached thoughtfully and proactively, transitions in care can actually improve safety, independence, and overall quality of life.

In this Abundant Focus blog, we’ll explore the most common levels of senior living, who each level is designed for, how care is typically funded, and how families can approach these transitions with confidence and dignity.

Independent Living: Independence with Convenience

Independent Living is often misunderstood as the first step in a declining journey of care—but that isn’t the case. Independent Living is exactly what the name suggests: a lifestyle choice that allows older adults to maintain independence while enjoying the benefits of community and convenience.

Residents typically live in a private apartment or single-level home while enjoying services such as:

• Maintenance-free living

• Lawn care and snow removal

• Meal plans

• Social, educational, and wellness activities

• Transportation options

Many communities are thoughtfully designed with age-friendly features such as elevators, well-lit spaces, and accessibility features that make everyday life easier. Some also offer convenient access to home care services, wellness programs, or outpatient therapies.

Independent Living is typically private pay, though costs vary widely depending on the community. Some offer income-based options, while others operate on an entry-fee model that provides long-term financial stability.

For many older adults, Independent Living offers the opportunity to simplify life, stay socially connected, and enjoy a vibrant community environment.

Learn more about what Independent Living is like at United Church Homes.

Assisted Living: Support with Daily Living

Assisted Living provides the next level of support for individuals who may need help with certain daily activities, often referred to as Activities of Daily Living (ADLs).

These may include:

• Bathing

• Dressing

• Grooming

• Eating

• Medication management

• Occasional mobility assistance

In Assisted Living communities, trained caregivers provide daily support while licensed nurses oversee care. The goal is not to replace independence—but to support it.

Many Assisted Living communities also offer specialized Memory Care neighborhoods for individuals living with Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia. These environments provide additional safety, structured routines, and programs designed to support cognitive engagement and emotional well-being.

Assisted Living communities are licensed and regulated by each state. Some communities participate in Medicaid Waiver programs that support Home and Community-Based Services (HCBS) for qualified residents. In addition, certain long-term care insurance policies may help cover a portion of the cost.

Learn more about what Assisted Living is like at United Church Homes. 

Skilled Nursing & Long-Term Care: Comprehensive Medical Support

Outside of hospitals and inpatient rehabilitation units, Skilled Nursing Facilities (SNFs) provide the highest level of care available in a residential setting. These facilities are licensed by both state and federal agencies and are regularly surveyed and inspected.

Many individuals enter a skilled nursing facility for short-term rehabilitation following a hospital stay. This type of care often includes:

• Physical therapy

• Occupational therapy

• Speech therapy

• Post-surgical care

• Medical monitoring

Short-term skilled care is typically covered by Medicare or Managed Care Organizations for a limited time, often less than 30 days. Co-insurance costs may apply depending on the individual’s coverage.

If someone can no longer return home or transition to a lower level of care, they may move into long-term care, which provides:

• 24-hour nursing care

• Assistance with daily living activities

• Ongoing medical supervision

Long-term care may be funded through private pay, long-term care insurance, or Medicaid for individuals who qualify.

Learn more about what Skilled Nursing is like at United Church Homes. 

How to Determine the Right Level of Care

Pro tip: Taking a tour of a senior living community is the best way to find out information and get your questions answered!

Choosing the right level of care can feel overwhelming. A few key considerations can help guide the process.

Safety First

Consider whether new risks are emerging, such as:

• Falls

• Medication errors

• Wandering

• Difficulty safely using appliances

• Poor nutrition or weight loss

Functional Needs

Is the individual struggling with everyday tasks such as cooking, bathing, managing medications, or maintaining the home?

Social and Emotional Well-Being

Isolation can be just as harmful as physical decline. Community engagement and meaningful connection play an important role in healthy aging.

Professional Evaluation

A primary care provider, nurse assessor, or therapy professional can help evaluate needs and recommend appropriate levels of support.

Planning Ahead Makes Transitions Easier

Care transitions are often most difficult when they happen suddenly during a crisis. Planning ahead allows individuals and families to make thoughtful decisions and maintain a sense of control.

For example, moving into a smaller home or apartment may take time and planning. Preferred communities may have waitlists, and amenities and services can vary widely. Taking time to explore options, tour communities, and ask questions can make the transition much smoother.

Family support also plays an important role. When loved ones remain engaged before, during, and after a move, it helps individuals adjust more comfortably to their new home.

After all, home is where the heart is—and the presence of family helps make any new place feel like home.

Final Thoughts

Transitions in care don’t have to be intimidating. The right level of support can provide greater safety, more independence, and an improved quality of life.

If you or a loved one are beginning to consider a change, start early, ask questions, and explore your options. Thoughtful planning today can make tomorrow’s transitions far more comfortable and empowering.

Find a United Church Homes senior living community near you!

by: Linda Dailey, MBA, LNHA, CEAL – Regional Director of Healthcare Operations

Stay Connected and Live Life Abundantly

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My husband John and I had just landed at Hopkins airport in Cleveland from a 2 ½ week trip to Florida, and as we blearily got off the plane and stumbled toward baggage, John said, “You know, I feel a bit traumatized.”  I too felt “a bit traumatized.”  The previous 2 ½ weeks very clearly showed us that our bodies had aged, and we could no longer pretend we could do what we used to do. 

Our adventure started out with glamping in Everglades National Park with our daughter Lizzy. We were all very excited about it. Glamping is the idea that one could be living out in nature without all the work and discomfort of having to pitch a tent and sleep on the ground. Some glamping experiences have all the amenities of a resort. Needless to say, our glamping experience was not in the least resort-like. 

We checked in and went to our tent which was pitched over a floor. The whole setup reminded me of girl scout camp complete with the toilets and bath house about 2 football fields away. It was also cold. The lows were in the mid- forties which for south Florida is rare. The only provision given for the cold temperatures was an extra blanket. Therefore, my sleeping attire consisted of leggings, sweatpants, two long sleeved shirts, an REI compressible down jacket and a knit cap under 3 blankets. We were ecstatic when the lows climbed into the 50s.  

And then, of course, we had to walk about two football fields to the bathroom which during the day wasn’t so bad, but at night, it was rough. Getting up and walking 200 yards to relieve oneself at 2am… and 4am…and 6am in the freezing cold wasn’t an exciting adventure, it was just hard. 

After 3 nights of glamping, we moved to a resort on Key Largo which, we all decided was more our speed. The resort was lovely and we spent a lot of time by the pool as the temps had at last climbed into the 70s. And all was well until the snorkeling. Being a strong swimmer, I went into the snorkeling with an air of nonchalance as we were taken by boat to the coral reef, were given life jackets, snorkels and even a noodle, and then told to hop on in. So, into the ocean I went, and my nonchalance immediately disappeared as I worked to swim in 68-degree water to the coral reef a good 100 yards away.   

Huffing and puffing through my snorkel, I made it to the reef, saw a few beautiful fish in and around the reef as I became more exhausted. At this point, fear gripped me as I wondered if I had the strength to make it back to the boat, so I immediately forgot about the wondrous sea life, made a U-turn and started back. I was in the water for about 30 minutes with John not far behind me. Now, I am in terrible shape, but John is very fit, and he, too was exhausted by the experience. 

We went back to the resort and parked ourselves by the pool until it was time to drive back to Orlando to our son Tim’s home. We arrived at Tim’s house greeted by his lovely wife Yoly and our three gorgeous grandchildren ages 14 years, 11 years and 12 months. Many hugs and kisses later, we unpacked and prepared ourselves to babysit Josiah our just turned one-year-old grandson for the next few days while his parents went to work and his older sisters went to school. 

Now, 30 years ago, I cared for an infant and toddler all by myself while John was at work, and I don’t remember it being unmanageable. But now, caring for one infant at ages 65 and 70 took the both of us. I had forgotten how unrelenting caring for small children is.  It just never lets up. Of course, baby Josiah charmed us as he has during all our visits and we continued to fall madly in love with this smiling giggling joyful child, but it took everything we had to care for him. 

By the end of our trip, I was humbled and chagrinned as I admitted to myself that my body is no longer young and I no longer belonged in the “young” group. In nursing school, we learned about human growth and development, and believe it or not, the signs of aging start to become apparent in a person’s 30’s, and little by little, year after year, the heart becomes less efficient, bones become thinner, joints become less flexible, and muscle tissue becomes weaker. And on and on it goes with every part of your body showing the effects of aging without you even noticing until you go glamping and babysit your 12-month-old grandson. And then, you notice. 

It’s embarrassing to admit that I was surprised by this revelation. In my mind, I still considered myself “young” which is wonderful as long as I am clear that my heart, bones, joints, muscles, immune system etc.…are no longer young. My body has some miles on it, and it shows. So, what now? How do I live with my aging body that no longer belongs in the “young” category while still doing what brings me joy? 

I get inspired when I think of my late father-in-law Harlan who was a retired high school band and choral director. Music was his passion so post-retirement he directed church choirs and taught music appreciation courses at the local community college. But, when the effects of aging made walking even short distances difficult and threatened to sideline him from the activities that gave his life joy and meaning, he took action. He purchased an electric wheelchair and outfitted his van with a chair lift. This allowed him to continue directing choirs, teaching classes and quite simply, living life. 

As for me, I am still figuring out how to navigate my life as my body ages, so like Harlan, I can continue doing what I love. There is, however, one thing I know for sure. I’m definitely hanging up my snorkel and from now on seeing the wonders of the sea at an aquarium. 

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United Church Homes and Plymouth Place Announce Memorandum of Understanding to Explore Strategic Collaboration

Marion, OH & La Grange, IL (Mar. 19, 2026) United Church Homes and Plymouth Place, both faith-inspired nonprofit, mission driven senior living and services organizations have entered a formal Memorandum of Understanding (MOU) to explore collaborative opportunities that advance their shared missions and strengthen their respective organizations.

The agreement follows more than a year of discussion between the two organizations about ways to work more closely together. Signed in February, the MOU establishes a formal framework for continued collaboration.

“This agreement reflects our shared desire to work collectively and collaboratively to create mutually beneficial opportunities while respecting one another’s missions and business objectives,” said Kenneth Young, President and CEO of United Church Homes. “We believe there is strength in partnership, particularly among mission-driven organizations committed to serving older adults with excellence.”

Founded in 1944, Plymouth Place has long been a cornerstone in the La Grange, Illinois community, a suburb of Chicago. An elegant entrance-fee, life plan community, Plymouth Place is known for its commitment to independence, lifelong learning, and wellness. Its mission centers on creating a center of excellence that is welcoming and inclusive environment inspiring individuals to grow, connect, and live their best lives.

Founded in 1916, United Church Homes provides market-rate senior independent living, affordable housing, licensed healthcare, management, and consulting services across 15 states and two Native American tribal lands.

Jay Biere, President and CEO of Plymouth Place, noted that the agreement reflects both organizations’ commitment to thoughtful growth and mutual support.

“We are excited to formalize a relationship with United Church Homes,” Biere said. “Both of our organizations are rooted in faith-based service and a commitment to excellence. This Memorandum of Understanding provides a pathway to continue learning from one another, supporting one another, and exploring opportunities that strengthen the communities we serve.”

The Memorandum of Understanding outlines the organizations’ intent to diligently pursue collaborative opportunities that expand their missions and business objectives. Areas of potential collaboration include:

• Development of shared services and proprietary service models
• Management and consulting services for third-party providers
• Clinical services, quality assurance, and reimbursement guidance
• Marketing, sales, and customer experience strategy
• Accounting, HR, IT, and corporate compliance services
• Public relations, crisis communication, and online reputation management
• Purchasing, procurement, billing, fundraising, and board governance support
• Affordable and market-rate housing compliance and operations

Together, United Church Homes and Plymouth Place affirm their shared commitment to innovation, stewardship, and service.

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For more than a century, United Church Homes has been dedicated to transforming the lives of older adults with quality housing and compassionate care. Now recognized as the 19th largest multisite nonprofit senior living organization in the U.S., according to the 2025 LeadingAge Ziegler 200 ranking, UCH proudly serves nearly 7,000 residents across more than 90 vibrant communities in 15 states and two Native American nations. Driven by a mission to redefine aging, UCH creates a culture of community, wholeness and peace for those it has the honor to serve. As a founding member of Radiant Alliance, United Church Homes continues to lead the way in shaping the future of senior living. 

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It was one of those hospital consultation rooms that feels more industrial than human—cold lighting, stiff chairs, and a table that looked as if it had hosted far too many difficult conversations. It was July of 2013, and around that table sat my grandmother, Helen, my grandfather, my mom, my aunt, and me. 

 But the truth is, the feeling of being alone had started long before we ever sat down in that room. 

For months we had been watching my grandmother experience moments that simply weren’t her—circumstances, behaviors, and confusing incidents that none of us could explain. We knew something was wrong, but we didn’t yet have words for it. We were worried, confused, and quietly carrying the weight of uncertainty. 

So when the doctor finally entered the consultation room that day, we were desperate for clarity. 

He did not sit long. He looked at my grandmother and said, almost matter-of-factly, “Helen, you have Lewy Body Dementia and Alzheimer’s.” 

And then he left. 

No explanation. No roadmap. No gentle unfolding of what would come next—just a diagnosis that seemed to echo in the quiet room after the door closed. 

Eventually we gathered our things and made our way to the car. The drive home was mostly silent. No one said much, but the silence said enough. Each of us was carrying something heavy. Though we didn’t say it out loud, I knew we all felt it. 

We felt alone. 

Because I loved my grandmother so deeply, I couldn’t simply sit with that feeling. That night, after we returned home, I opened my computer and began searching. What was Lewy Body Dementia? What was Alzheimer’s? What did this mean for her—for us? 

Hour after hour I read everything I could find. 

Somewhere in the middle of that long night, I came across the Alzheimer’s Association. 

What I discovered there changed everything. 

By the next afternoon, I had scheduled a meeting with a local Alzheimer’s Association representative. When we walked into that meeting, something shifted. For the first time since the diagnosis, we were met not just with information—but with understanding. 

Suddenly we realized we were not the only ones walking this road.

Over the next three years, now that we finally had a name for what was happening, we discovered something that became incredibly important to our family: belonging. Through the Alzheimer’s Association, we found connection. We found guidance. We found people who understood what it meant to love someone whose mind was changing. We found people who knew the exhaustion, the confusion, the grief, and even the unexpected moments of grace that come with caregiving. 

Most importantly, we discovered we were not alone. 

In the years since that diagnosis in 2013, I found myself drawn deeper and deeper into that community—what I often think of as a community of warriors standing together against the overwhelming fog of what many call “The Long Goodbye.” 

I immersed myself in that work. I became an advocate at the local, state, and national levels. I helped plan events and informational classes to help families navigate the difficult road of dementia and Alzheimer’s. I collected iPods for the Music & Memory program, helping bring familiar songs back into the lives of those whose memories were fading. 

And during my time as a chaplain intern, I was blessed with the opportunity to provide spiritual care to those living with Alzheimer’s and other dementias. I sat beside them in song, in prayer, and sometimes in art—discovering the many ways their minds could still be opened and their hearts touched. 

Perhaps the greatest lesson our family learned during those years came through caring for my grandmother herself. We discovered that the best way to help her experience belonging was simply to meet her wherever she was in that moment. If she believed we were in another decade, we didn’t correct her—we joined her there. If music brought her joy, we sang. If prayer brought peace, we prayed. If laughter appeared in the middle of confusion, we welcomed it. 

Belonging, we learned, is not about forcing someone back into our reality. Sometimes belonging is simply about loving someone enough to step into theirs. 

My grandmother died in 2016. Yet even today, the community we discovered during that difficult season continues to shape my life. 

In fact, as I write these words, I am returning home from representing the Open and Affirming Coalition of the United Church of Christ at the Alzheimer’s Association’s Community Leaders Summit. In 2024, the Coalition began a partnership with the Alzheimer’s Association to help ensure that members of the LGBTQ+ community—whether they are living with Alzheimer’s themselves or caring for someone who is—can find another level of belonging, support, and community. 

For me, this work feels deeply personal. Somehow three important parts of my life have come together in this moment: being a pastor, being a gay man, and being an advocate who once helped care for his grandmother through Alzheimer’s. 

What once felt like one of the loneliest seasons of my life has now become part of the way I help others find connection. 

And that, I believe, is the quiet miracle of belonging. 

Belonging is not only something we search for when life is easy. Often, belonging is something we discover when life becomes difficult—when the road grows uncertain and we realize we were never meant to walk it alone. 

Belonging is the hand that reaches across the table in a quiet hospital room. 

It is the voice that says, “We understand. We’ve been there too.” 

It is the community that gathers around us in our hardest seasons and gently reminds us that even in the fog, we are still seen, still known, and still loved. 

A Moment for Reflection 

As you reflect on your own life, you might consider: 

• When have you experienced a season that made you feel alone? 

• Who helped you realize you didn’t have to carry that season by yourself? 

• Where have you discovered unexpected belonging? 

• Is there someone in your life right now who might need help finding their own sense of community? 

• If you are feeling alone in this season of life, where might you begin seeking connection or support? 

• What might it look like to take one small step toward belonging—for yourself or for someone else? 

The Center for Abundant Aging exists to help people discover exactly this kind of connection—because none of us are meant to age in isolation. We age best when we age together. And when we help one another find belonging, we create the kind of community where all of us can truly age abundantly. 

And sometimes the most sacred work we can do in this life is simply to make sure no one has to walk through the fog alone. 

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My curls arrived early and made themselves known immediately—springy, stubborn, and completely uninterested in doing what other hair was doing. From the beginning, my hair was less “sweet baby wisps” and more “science experiment meets small rebellion.” 

Little did I know that theme would follow me through much of my life. 

For a while, my curls were celebrated. They matched my personality—chatty, energetic, and a little wild. People said they were cute. Manageable chaos. Acceptable chaos. 

But somewhere around fifth or sixth grade, I started to notice something troubling: the other girls carried hairbrushes. They brushed their hair between classes. Their hair laid smooth and shiny against their shoulders, obedient and cooperative. They wore pigtails and braids that stayed where they were told. 

My hair did not. 

I couldn’t wear my hair like the other girls. And when I tried, it didn’t look the same. Mine was thick, coarse, frizzy, and determined to do its own thing. It was not smooth. It was not orderly. It was not impressed by trends. 

By junior high, I was desperate to belong. So I talked my mom into letting me get the haircut of the 90s—the Jennifer Aniston “Friends” shag. She tried to talk me out of it. But remember: I was as stubborn as my curls. 

The moment the scissors stopped, I knew I had made a terrible mistake. 

Instead of effortless layers, I had what can only be described as a helmet. A very full, very curly helmet. In an era when curls were deeply uncool. Junior high students, being the compassionate souls they are, did not hold back. 

“Nice hair, Ashley.”
“You have a ‘fro!”
“Why don’t you just straighten it?” 

Straightening wasn’t really an option back then. The tools weren’t great, and neither was the technique. Every attempt made my hair—and the comments—worse. By the time junior high ended, my self-esteem had followed my hair into complete chaos. 

Eventually, I gave up on trends and let my curls grow long. But I didn’t embrace them—I tolerated them. I avoided talking about my hair. Compliments hurt almost as much as criticism. It felt superficial, sure—but also deeply personal. I couldn’t change it. And I didn’t know how to belong with it. 

Then I met my husband. 

While we were dating, he said something that shifted everything. He told me to stop straightening my hair. Stop fighting it. “Your curls are unique,” he said. “God gave them to you. Why would you want to change what God gave you?” 

That question landed somewhere deep. 

Why was I trying so hard to fit into a world I wasn’t designed for? Why was I working overtime to hide something that was part of how I was created? 

I never straightened my hair again. 

Belonging can be beautiful—but it can also be exhausting when it requires us to become someone else. Too often, belonging is confused with blending in, sanding down edges, or hiding parts of ourselves to be accepted. 

But Scripture tells a different story. 

“I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made.” (Psalm 139:14) 

Not eventually acceptable. Not once improved. Wonderfully made—right now, curls and all. 

As we age, the temptation to belong doesn’t go away. In many ways, it gets louder. Bodies change. Roles shift. Independence looks different. And the pressure to fit into someone else’s version of “normal” can feel overwhelming. 

Abundant living isn’t about fitting a mold—it’s about being valued exactly as we are. True belonging doesn’t ask us to erase our stories, our identities, or our quirks. It invites us to bring them fully. 

Or, as Romans 12:2 reminds us, “Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.” 

Sometimes transformation looks like letting your hair do what it was always meant to do. 

Belonging doesn’t require perfection. It requires honesty. And the courage to let your curls be curls. 

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